myanak2ku

Hi there!

I try to figure out what sort of blog that I want to write.. without any interesting idea on my mind, limited time and knowledge. Finally I decided to share my experience of starting a new phase of my life: being a father of my two charming prince and my two beautiful princess whose name are Iman Hafiy (19/02/2007), Siti Fadiyah (18/04/08) and Siti Fathiyah (20/11/2009) & Iman Hazim (19/09/2011)
Everytime I look at them.. I see hope renewed and how simple life can be.

* My thanks go to my beloved wife for showing me the real definitions of marriage and being the best mother for our kids..

Neat and tidy.. please..

Posted by Adie Achim | | 7:18 PM

I wish and I want to instill in my children a sense of pride in taking care of their things, pride in a job that was done to the finish and done well or correctly. I've tried teaching them how serious it is to have a "chaos room" when it's messy. I've tried allowances for chores but I don't feel like they should get paid for doing things they should be doing already.

Ultimately, I want to develop self-discipline. It's something we all have to do everyday and if. I can give them the right mindset to tackle it with efficiency, pride and some level of gratefulness, instead of shaming them into cleaning.

Papa bangga dengan Dedek, semuanya dalam keadaan yang teratur. Kadang-kadang sampai berpeluh-peluh dia mengemas seorang diri. Dia melakukan tanpa perlu disuruh dan tidak juga untuk dipuji. Alhamdulillah..

I love you all!

Posted by Adie Achim | | 7:09 PM

Mac 26, 2015

Agak sukar untuk mencuri masa mengemaskini blog, sedang begitu banyak perkara yang berlalu begitu sahaja tanpa didokumentasi. Rasanya, tujuan asal Papa membuat blog ini agar pada suatu hari nanti anak-anak Papa boleh membacanya. Maka blog ini akan melalui perubahan lebih kepada suatu jurnal anak-anak papa.. dari sudut kaca mata papa dan mama.

Sedang Papa sibuk buat kerja dapat teks whatsapp dari mama.. dan rupa-rupanya dari si dedek.

Dialognya lebih kurang begini;

Dedek : Papa ni suka abang ikbal

Papa : Napa dedek?

Dedek: Papa ni suka abang ikbal papa tak suka kami bertiga

Papa: Aik napa cakap begitu?

... Tiada jawapan

Kemudian balik dari pejabat ternampak Dedek sedang bermain di taman. Papa terus berjumpanya.

Papa : Hi Dedek (Usap rambutnya)

Dedek : Hi Papa (dengan senyuman manisnya..)

Papa : Awalnya adik turun main..?

Dedek hanya tersengih..

Papa : Dedek hantar mesej sama papa tadi kan.. kenapa dedek cakap gitu?

Dedek : Ya lah.. ari tu dekat rumah grandpa, papa cakap sayang dengan abang Ikbal..

Papa : Papa memang sayang abang Ikbal.. Tapi papa sayang semua anak papa juga..

Dedek hanya tersenyum...

Adui baru teringat memang Papa ada bergurau dengannya, masa tu ada Mama juga dan kami berpakat kononnya sayang Iqbal jak.. Masa tu reaksinya hanya tersenyum tetapi rupanya dia pendam perasaannya. Dan baru Papa sedari si Dedek jarang mengadu berbanding abang dan kakaknya. Maafkan Papa ya Dedek.

My princess.. Get well soon..

Posted by Adie Achim | | 11:14 PM

Dec, 13th 2014

Those photos given by my colleague (middle pic.) Photo taken when she came to office, don't really remember for what reason. If not mistaken she was three or four years.. she looked fabolous with glasses.

My dear Jiji.. she got fever.. the third day.
We were worry terribly but keep on monitor his body's temperature.
Pity her.. learn to swallow pcm's tablet as she never had before.
So today mama bring her to see doctor and as we expected 'on-antibiotic'.
For her sake.. we will do anything..
But quite relief and glad there are nothing much serious.
but..
I was touched when she kept on saying want to return back at our old house..

I make a promised.
Amin.. Ya rabbal al amin.

Abang turns 7!

Posted by Adie Achim | | 1:19 AM

19th February 2014

Pagi ni abang bangun, terus mama wish 'Happy Birthday' lepas tu papa pun wish juga, dia senyum happy "papa kasi surprise birthday saya ok". Papa senyum aja "Abang punya birthday hari jumaat lah.. sabar ah.." Hmm.. termakan jugalah si abang "Ok papa.. jangan lupa ah bagi surprise!"

Ready mau pergi sekolah agama. Wah hensem anak papa! dah besar.. macam sekelip mata 7tahun tu.

Masa abang di sekolah agama, mama&papa, jiji dan dedek keluar town beli persiapan birthday serba ringkas jer.. maaf bang bajet kritikal nie :p tapi nak juga surprise kan si abang.

Nilah kek kegemarannya "Fruit cheese cake". Menu lain frozen hawaian chicken pizza. Bolehlah.. Favourite dia juga tu!

Si baby pula tertidur... puaslah dikejut tak bangun-bangun juga!

Yang baby boy sorang ni, masih blurr apa yang sedang berlaku???

Akhirnya si Jiji awal-awal lagi dah pecah rahsia. Abang belum masuk rumah dia dah inform "ni hadiah birthday abang, ada kek untuk abang, mama masak pizza!" punya lah geram si mama, sedangkan dah pakat nak surprise. Akhirnya kek dibawa keluar dan semua nyanyi lagu birthday. Kira surprise jugalah..

Happynya si abang. Mohon ampun dan maaf tak dapat jemput. Saja nak surprise kan si abang dengan bajet yang ciput.

No matter how much you grow up, for me (us) you are always going to remain the youngest, the dearest and the smartest sonny boy. Wishing you happy birthday and may all your dreams for the future come true.
Thanks to you dearest son, we can call ourselves proud parents. Have a great day and a great year ahead.
We have cherished all the priceless moments watching you grow up and we will always remember these tender memories for the rest of our lives. Birthday wishes and blessings are coming your way.
Many years ago on this very day, you came into our lives and brought us happiness, joy and a lot of love. Happy Birthday to the best son in the whole wide world!
Every single day since you was born, you’ve added something so amazing to my world t

hat I can’t even imagine my life without you in it.Happy Birthday my beloved son!
Every day you find a way to bring a smile to my face. Hope your birthday brings a smile to yours!
With love and best wishes to a perfect son for a wonderful Birthday!
Wherever life will take you, whatever endeavors that you choose, I will always be so proud of you! Happy Birthday, my son!"
Having a son like you is reason to be proud and happy - not just on your special day, but always! Happy Birthday! Thanks for being you.
A day never goes by that you are not thought about with love, smile and happy memories. Wishing you joy and happiness all year through!
Having a son like you to love is the dearest blessing by far. May your Birthday be blessed with everything God wants to give you!
You are loved for the smart kid you were, the charming person you are now, and the wonderful son you will always be! Happy Birthday to you, son!

Mixed emotions!

Posted by Adie Achim | | 12:59 AM

Hi there,

I love watching them grow and become their own person but at the same time it is a bit sad, bittersweet as they say. I have mixed emotions on that.

A part of me is sad because they grow up so fast. Now they depend on us on almost everything. And when I think about it, in some years or so, they will start to do things their way. The thought of my kids needing us less is really scary.

The other part of me is happy that a little by little, they are learning to stand up on their own. It only assures us that we have raised them well.

Alhamdulillah.

Happy birthday Sweetie (Nov,20th 2009)

Posted by Adie Achim | | 12:12 AM

No matter how many Birthdays come and go, you will always be my little princess.
Happy Birthday my sweetie! - See more at: http://www.21stbirthdaywishes.net/birthday-wishes-for-daughter-messages-greetings-quotes-and-sayings/#sthash.3mkvEkBH.dpuf

No matter how many birthdays come and go, you will always be my little princess. Happy birthday!

Sister fights

Posted by Adie Achim | | 10:57 PM

Jiji turns five on April 18th and Dedek turns four on Nov, 21st. They got along beautifully until last year. Now it seems they fight all the time over toys, cartoon channel and who look alike Barbie (Can you imagine how complicated to be a judge!). Most of the time, I keep an eye on things but try to stay out of the fight by reminding myself that they usually can resolve it themselves.

If they can’t resolve a conflict on their own, I act first as a mediator, teaching them how to listen to one another’s point of view. I help them brainstorm solutions and negotiate. If they force me into taking a stand, I simply try to give each girl the love and support she needs. I also try to reserve some time for myself each day when I tell the girls I’m “off duty.”

Now and then, Jiji forgets her strength and gets too pushy with her younger sister. Sometimes it’s best for me to ignore their arguing, and other times I need to step in and send them to their rooms to cool down. Different methods work better at different times. They aren’t the same every day, and neither am I. If I’ve had an easy day, then I can be more tolerant and patient.

Good thing is they sleep together sharing pillow and blanket!

Happy New Year 2013!

Posted by Adie Achim | | 5:41 PM

Yeah... I know, I know! It's been ages since I've posted anything. I just haven't had the time since Iman Hazim was born. Oh yeah...I never even posted that I had him. I also know, when it comes to blogging, I fail miserably but give me a break, I'm still adjusting to this whole "being a father of four" thing. Haha..Life is crazy to say the least. Work is super busy, and any free time I have is spent with my kids and wonderful wife. This blog is constantly in the back of my mind nagging at me to get on here to update and keep a record of all the amazing things their doing now, but seriously, I never have time.

Anyhow, update on Iman Hazim. He is growing so fast! At his 3 month clinic reviewed he weighed 7 kg! He was born with weighed 3.6 Kg. He coos, baby talks, laughs, and smiles all the time now and there is nothing in the world that melts my heart than that.

I was born on Sept,19th (7.50am) Hospital Nukleus, Labuan

Well I hope to get some pictures on here soon but until then, check out my facebook...there's plenty of pictures there!

New Year Resolutions:
Bettery magazines

Tap into your inner child
Kids don’t know about schedules, prejudices or stress. They are open minded, happy and thirsty for knowledge — emulate their joyous ignorance and your adult burdens will feel much lighter: listen to street musicians, watch birds in the street, tell silly jokes, say hello to strangers, play, take your time, smile!

My toys

Posted by Adie Achim | | 11:33 AM

Inevitably, my son comes home and asks why he doesn't have some toy that his friend has. I find this question difficult to respond to. Frankly, I like the idea of children should have a bedroom overflowing with their favourite toys, computer and video games but my wife doesn't agree. She is so practical (mama.. jan marah..) So it won't happen.. I guess :)

According to Richard Bromfield, in his new book 'How to Unspoil Your Child Fast; A Speedy, Complete guide to Contented Children and Happy Parents'. What's the danger in spoiling a child? First, you're only making your job as a parent more difficult. (That is, of course, unless you like whinning.) But more importantly, you're also not helping your son or daughter develop into a well-adjusted adult who can handle the normal setbacks that life is sure to throw his or her way, says Bromfield.

My personal opinion, more importantly, some spoiled kids even run the risk of having financial problems later in life. That's because they don't learn the very important lessons of delayed their request or learn the value of money.

I've started telling my son and daughters that if they really want something they can buy themselves by saving. Of course the source from us but there are many way to reward them. (I guess you guys know better, rite?)

Or.. they can write the item down on their wish list (I've given no promises.)

So far, my son is a bit disappointed he doesn't have PS3. But I have no choice in a process to discipline them. He is only five and too young for it. (eventhough he can play very well) and actually my real answer was "mahal bah tu!"

p.s: So true! buy toys on sale, worth it!

I want, I hope

Posted by Adie Achim | | 12:49 AM

I want to train my kids to love and to take care of each other at an early age.

I want them to hug and kiss whenever one of them has to go somewhere
I want them to greet each other any time of the day and other small things that would help them learn to love each other.
I want them to help one another by involving them in activities that they can do together such as some household chores or doing errands.
I want them to mutual respect for each other.
I want them to appreciate each other by reminding them to say "thank you" every time one did something good.

I hope this attitude would carry on until they grow up.

P.S: This picture was taken when mama admitted (hyperemesis gravidarum). I did not realised when my tears falling down on my face.

Twin? Boy?

Posted by Adie Achim | | 12:14 AM

Finding out mama got pregnant was a very exciting and nervous time in my life. Once we've had that positive pregnancy test we are faced with many decisions, one of which is when should we tell and whom should tell.

Some people believe only in telling their immediate family for fear of early pregnancy loss. Most people fall into a middle ground on who they begin telling.Any way you tell them it is sure to be a moment that they will remember forever.

We were having tea time and got the idea maybe this was the right time to tell abang:

Mama: Abang.. come.. nanti abang dapat baby baru.

Abang: Huh!!! (excited) dalam perut mama?

Mama: Iya bang. Tapi masih kecil lagi.

Abang: Horeyyy!!! kembarkah mama?

Mama: Hmm.. nda tau lagi abang. Napa abang mau twin?

Abang: Mau.. macam Upin Ipin.. macam Akil Akim (referred his classmates)

Mama: Abang mau kasi nama apa?

Abang: Iman Hafiy

Mama: Tu kan nama abang.. mana boleh..

Abang : Boleh!

Papa: Kalau twin.. yang satu lagi nama apa?

Abang: Iman Hafiz

Papa: Kalau baby girl?

Abang: Nda mau, abang mau boy.

As if, it was for sure we are going to have twin baby and baby boy... Twin? Nah.. single only. Boy? we decide to keep it for surprise. The picture taken after the conversation, he was enjoying on his karaoke session. To celebrate maybe :)

tea time@ hospital.

Posted by Adie Achim | | 1:00 AM

Pic: Taken while waiting mama finish duty (hospital)

I've got tons of things to write and share but just could not find the time.... (malas pun ya). It's already 2012. They're grown up very-very well :) That picture proved! Oh my! Abang turns-5 coming Feb,19th, Jiji turns-4 on Apr, 18th and Dedek as well turns-3 (Nov, 20th).

Glasses

Posted by Adie Achim | | 1:10 AM

Come to my sense that there are posibility that one day (sooner or later) my kids will wearing glasses since both us wearing it. I just hope it can be delaying to thier age of 20+, but my pray they will not need to wear it at all. Come to my worry, they got to have their own budget on buying it. Come to my nonsense, they will look nerd and not attractive, but thank god for lenses tech, it can be an option.

It was a hot saturday noon, when Dedek keep on playing my glasses. So I let them wear it on.. and to make it as a contest I choosed Dedek as the winner! Agree with me? Doesn't she look adorable?

motivate and demotivate

Posted by Adie Achim | | 2:15 AM

Taken on: Oct, 05th 2011

Jiji dear,
Papa felt so bad on this day... pity you :( Those pics shows how depressed you are. I have no choice but not to let you go to school. I can't get off my head your face and cried when you persuaded me to come along with abang. It was your teacher not allowed you to come, she said 'you are not ready yet'. So sorry Jiji. Do not worry, when the day come you can always go to school everyday!

This papa promise you ... Personally I felt bad for motivate her to school but then demotivated! what a teribble papa I am :(

love u! my huggable :)

myanak2ku

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Hi there!

Neat and tidy.. please..

I love you all!

My princess.. Get well soon..

Abang turns 7!

Mixed emotions!

Happy birthday Sweetie (Nov,20th 2009)

Sister fights

Happy New Year 2013!

My toys

I want, I hope

Twin? Boy?

tea time@ hospital.

Glasses

motivate and demotivate

Iman Hafiy aka Abang

Siti Fadiyah aka Kakak/JiJi

Siti Fathiyah aka Dedek

Iman Hazim aka Baby Hazim/Shin Chan

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