myanak2ku

tea time@ hospital.

2012-02-15T01:00:00.000-08:00

Pic: Taken while waiting mama finish duty (hospital)

I've got tons of things to write and share but just could not find the time.... (malas pun ya). It's already 2012. They're grown up very-very well :) That picture proved! Oh my! Abang turns-5 coming Feb,19th, Jiji turns-4 on Apr, 18th and Dedek as well turns-3 (Nov, 20th).

Glasses

2011-10-19T01:10:00.000-07:00

Come to my sense that there are posibility that one day (sooner or later) my kids will wearing glasses since both us wearing it. I just hope it can be delaying to thier age of 20+, but my pray they will not need to wear it at all. Come to my worry, they got to have their own budget on buying it. Come to my nonsense, they will look nerd and not attractive, but thank god for lenses tech, it can be an option.

It was a hot saturday noon, when Dedek keep on playing my glasses. So I let them wear it on.. and to make it as a contest I choosed Dedek as the winner! Agree with me? Doesn't she look adorable?

motivate and demotivate

2011-10-14T02:15:00.000-07:00

Taken on: Oct, 05th 2011

Jiji dear,
Papa felt so bad on this day... pity you :( Those pics shows how depressed you are. I have no choice but not to let you go to school. I can't get off my head your face and cried when you persuaded me to come along with abang. It was your teacher not allowed you to come, she said 'you are not ready yet'. So sorry Jiji. Do not worry, when the day come you can always go to school everyday!

This papa promise you ... Personally I felt bad for motivate her to school but then demotivated! what a teribble papa I am :(

love u! my huggable :)

Update blog!

2011-09-26T23:09:00.000-07:00

Sept, 27th 2011

I was kind of surprised when open up this myanak2ku's blog, follower increased! I do nothing to promote it. Its has been a awhile since my last post. Oh my... I think I really should be writing more often. I don’t want to forget all these things that are happening in my life with myanak2ku. And in a way for me to remind myself of all the stuff that are happening in my life in this island right now is by writing it all down. I think, I should make a bigger deal of that from now on.

I’ll put “update blog” in my schedule. I try my very best!

Taken on: Aug, 30th 2011 / Kg. Kabatu, Beaufort.

Good bye fei maw, good bye nano!

2011-08-17T22:32:00.000-07:00

Fei maw was abang's fish

Nano was jiji's fish

both were dead!

Main caused : over feed.

Fei maw died first, it was a big shocked to both abang and Jiji. Jiji try to understand the situation and kept repeated the word 'mati'. Abang known well as a cry boy, crying as if end of the world.

Abang : Papa, kasi bangun fei maw! dia sleep bah tu!

Papa : Abang... fei maw mati sudah tu.

Abang : Papa kasi makan dia. dia hungry ja tu..

Papa : Hmm.. mati sudah tu abang. Nda apa nanti papa beli yang lain.(*nda: tak/tidak)

Abang : hmm (stop crying)

Next died - Nano. same caused- Overfeed!. Both them seem to understand, abang- no cry and jiji- no word at all. I am glad that, I managed to gave them the idea of death.

Papa : Sian Nano kan abang..

Abang : Aah tapi nanti papa beli yang lain kan. (cheer's voice)

And now they learn, no worries for the lost. Papa will replace a new one. Ayoyo!

Jiji - Go to school!

2011-07-20T02:33:00.000-07:00

1st day: So excited!
Cikgu: Encik.. si Jiji ni ok, cuma kurang tumpu masa belajar. Masa saya ngajar dia main.. jadi semua budak-budak tengok dia main.
Jiji: Papa.. Jiji mau toys kat sekolah
Abang: Papa.. jiji kacau toys kami!

2nd day: Absent
Mama: Jiji.. bangun.. pegi sekolah..
Jiji: Jiji ngantuk!

3rd day:
Jiji: Jiji nda mau sekolah Pa!
papa: Ok!

* For Record: Jiji went to school for 2011 = 2 days!

Routine call

2011-06-13T02:02:00.000-07:00

June,9th 2011

People said it was not a smart idea to give a call at home everyday, by checking asking the maid how are they going at home?  For sure the maid will given a good answer as she don't want more conversations by fooling herself given a bad reputation to herself.. but I keep calling them.  Because I missed myanak2ku so much.  Hearing their sobbing or quarelling over the phone are fair enough to give me such a relief  feeling that they are doing just fine.

Papa : Hello, Nor diorang buat apa?

Maid: Dedek lagi tidur, si abang lagi nonton kartun, jiji main bonekanya

Papa: Oh.. kamu semua sudah makan? 

Maid: Sudah.. cuma si Jiji ngak mau makan.. bilang mau makan KFC..

Papa: (tergelak) Panggil Jiji 

Maid: Ya bentar..

Jiji: Pa kat mana? working?

Papa: Iya kakak.. nanti papa pulang petang nanti ok?

Jiji: Pa.. mama mana?

Papa: Mama working..  Napa kakak nda makan?

Jiji: Papa mau papa

Papa: Iya lah.. napa kakak tidak mau momom(makan)?

Jiji: Jiji mau KFC..

Papa: Iyalah.. nanti papa bawa Jiji makan KFC ok?

Jiji: Mama?

Papa: Mama pun..

Jiji: Abang?

Papa: Abang pun.. dedek pun..Ok kakak.. bye.. somekum..

Jiji: Somekum, Walaikumsalam..

Klik.. end conversation... Relief! 

Mama.. we missed you!

2011-05-10T19:00:00.000-07:00

Day-4 mama went to KK for further study. I know they missed their mama very much... a lot! I just have to fulfill with fun activities or they start asking why mama have to go? how long? where place? what school? when she'll be home?

Oh my .. how frequent I explained but they still ask the same. what do expect with kids 4,3 and 2 years old. When all of sudden their mom not more around! My kids more patients okey.. mama gone for a while.. for our future sake..

Muuaah!

Alhamdulillah

2011-05-05T02:13:00.000-07:00

Syukur Alhamdulillah.. doa kami dimakbulkanNya.
Ya Allah kami terima rezki yang Engkau berikan.
Permudahkanlah bagi kami ya Allah..
Amin Ya Rabbil Al amin.

Harapan

2011-04-26T02:33:00.000-07:00

Ya Pencipta
Aku tidak pantas untuk minta
Cuma aku mohon kemurahanmu
Kiranya ia baik buat kami
Makbulkanlah

Ya Pencipta
Aku tidak minta untuk diriku
Tapi untuk mereka yang kusayang
Kiranya ia rezki buat kami
Berikanlah

Ya Pencipta
Aku tidak layak untuk itu
Namun demi mereka aku merayu
Buat satu harapan terindah
InshaAllah

P.S: Papa dalam keadaan yang tertekan menunggu keputusan yang paling penting dalam hidup, suatu harapan bukan saja buat papa&mama tapi jua buat myanak2ku. Sungguh betapa sebak hati mendengar si abang sendiri menadah tangan berdoa atas semoga harapan ini menjadi kenyataan.

Sweet-Innocent

2011-04-18T20:10:00.000-07:00

Innocent

I was about to deleting pictures that taken randomly by abang till I found out this!
Wah... mesmerized! if i'm not mistaken this was taken before my bro in law's wed.
I remember she cried to take it off so I let her worn it all day long.

Tragedi si Jiji!

2011-03-29T23:56:00.000-07:00

Kisah ni berlaku pada tahun lepas. Agak mencemaskan namun akhirnya berakhir dengan gelak tawa. Entah macam mana dia memasukkan bateri kereta mainan yang saiznya sama dengan bateri jam tangan ke dalam hidung.

Sedar-sedar dia menangis sambil mengorek lubang hidungnya, dia meminta tolong sambil menangis. Puas papa menghisap hidungnya namun tidak ada benda yang keluar hanya rasa besi dan papa syak dia termasuk paper-clip atau kunci.

Pelbagai usaha dilakukan dengan mendongakkan kepala namun tidak ada apa yang kelihatan dan menggunakan cotton-bud untuk mencungkil namun tiada benda yang keluar.

Akhirnya papa&mama berkira-kira untuk membawanya ke hospital dan pada ketika itulah dia bersin. Setelah itu kami mengamati benda yang keluar dari hidungnya dan dia menyerahkan kepada mamanya "mama.. eji nda mau nie!" dan papa&mama akhirnya ketawa sekuatnya.

Apabila si gamu berteka-teki

2011-03-29T23:15:00.001-07:00

Perjalanan menuju ke bandar akan melalui simpang Airport dan itu merupakan tempat wajib untuk disinggah oleh si Gamu (abang). Di sana terletaknya MC' D dan dia tidak pernah lupa untuk mengingatkan papa untuk singgah, kadang-kadang dia memberi alasan hanya untuk melihat-lihat ikan(landmark dekat roundabout) tetapi biasanya berakhir dengan membeli aiskrim.

Suatu hari tu saya hampir pasti dia lupa tentang tempat kegemarannya tu, hinggakan semasa melepasi simpang airport dia hanya tersenyum ceria. Kemudian pada ketika itulah dia menjual teka-tekinya.

Abang : Papa.. bird makan apa?
Papa : Fish! (bangga.. mesti diorang baru belajar ni)
Abang : Ok! bear makan aper? (tiru slang orang semenanjung)
Papa: emm.. fish (malas mau fikir!) Teacher ajar?
Abang : Papa... dekat airport tu ada fish kan..
Papa : (mesti dia maksudkan landmark ikan tu!) A'ah.. why?
Abang : Abang mau makan burger! (Pulak!)

Dan akhirnya kami menyinggah semasa perjalanan balik untuk membeli burger. Tiada sudah teka-tekinya mungkin sebab mulutnya penuh :)

Fine dine...

2011-03-17T19:52:00.000-07:00

Sesampai saja di halaman rumah tidak ada seorangpun yang keluar menyambut papa, aik mana saja diorang nie dan hanya selepas membuka pintu grill barulah si adik yang siap berpakaian cantik keluar dengan senyuman manisnya. Papa terus memeluk dan mendukungnya masuk ke rumah, rupa-rupanya si kakak dan si abang sedang disiapkan oleh mama. Mamapun tidak kurang lawa dan masih jelita seperti dulu. Sempat lagi bergurau dengan mama "jangan lawa sangat nanti orang mengorat". Mama hanya tersenyum dan dengan lembut "thank you pa, biasa-biasa ja"

Rupa-rupanya mama bawa keluar makan malam sempena birthday papa yang ke-33. Si kakak beria mau pergi KFC manakala si abang ke MC'D dan si adik hanya tersengih-sengih. Bagi mengelakkan pergaduhan kami mengambil keputusan ke Pizza.

Semasa dalam kereta lagi papa telah berulangkali memberi peringatan tentang 'do & don't" dan suruh mengulang perkataan 'behave". Mereka mengulangnya dan angguk setuju tetapi baru saja sampai di basement parking si kakak sudah membuka pintu tanpa kebenaran. Adoi!!!

Alhamdulillah dalam pizza mereka berkelakuan baik malah si abang sudah pandai memesan makanan. Semua makan dengan teratur cuma si kakak yang awal selesai makan terus berkeliaran, apalagi si adik pun ingin turut serta. Hanya si abang yang bersungguh-sungguh menghabiskan semua makanan. Balik ke rumah lebih kurang pukul 9.00 malam, semua mengantuk akibat kekenyangan. Thanks mama, abang, kakak and dedek. -Love you all!

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Aik ingat sudah habis?

dan rupa-rupanya mama tidak akan melepaskan papa tanpa surprise. Papa yang terlentang di ruang tamu menonton tv tercengang-cengang melihat mama dengan penuh selamba menutup suis kipas dan masuk ke dapur. Kemudian dia keluar semula dengan Kek dan lilin yang bernyala! Kemudian anak-anak papa menyanyi dengan girangnya lagu happy birthday. Dan seperti selalunya pergaduhan tentang siapa yang patut tiup lilin. Lilin terpaksa dipasang berulang-kali bagi memuaskan hati budak-budak tak cukup umur tu! Adoi!!!

Dedek the conqueror

2011-03-16T23:28:00.000-07:00

Dia punya pesona sebagai penyambut tetamu yang paling manis sekali, senyuman dan dengan penuh tenang menunggu sehingga papa@mama masuk ke rumah. Dia hanya memerhati kalau-kalau akan disapa dan didukung, kalau tidak dilayan sekalipun dia hanya akan meneruskan aktivitinya. Berlainan sekali dengan si abang dan si kakak yang menjerit-jerit dan tidak sabar-sabar menunggu kami masuk. Namun dia masih kecil, jangan diperkecilkan pengaruh sifu-sifunya itu.

Tidak banyak yang boleh diceritakan tentang si adik ni, dia jarang buat perangai cuma ada masanya dia mahu perhatian yang lebih dan akan bermanja semahunya. Tidak akan ada peluang untuk abang dan kakaknya. Rasanya dia layak untuk itu sebab jarang sekali dia mahu bermanja dengan papa&mama. Bukannya tidak dimanjakan namun perhatian terpaksa dibahagikan dengan si abang yang kuat merajuk dan si kakak yang kuat memerintah.

Namun begitu.. dia punya kekuatan yang buat kami akur dan terpaksa mengalah dengannya dan bagi papa itulah si Dedek yang sebenar. Apabila dia sedang duduk di sofa, dia tidak akan sekali-kali membenarkan sesiapapun duduk di mana-mana bahagian pun. kadang-kadang tanpa sedar terduduk bersamanya dia akan menolak atau menendang(dengan lembut) sehingga orang itu perasaan yang itu adalah kawasannya. Begitu juga kisahnya semasa tidur di atas katil, sebolehnya dia akan memastikan tidak akan tersentuh dengan siapa-siapa yang tidur di sampingnya.

Walaupun begitu papa&mama tetap berusaha untuk mengikis sikapnya itu takut menjadi kebiasaan dan menyusahkan dirinya kelak. Sekerap yang mungkin papa&mama akan duduk menemankan dia bermain dan bercerita di atas katil. Walaupun dia kurang gemar dipeluk papa&mama selalu membelai dan memeluknya.

P.S: Mungkin sebab itulah, papa&mama selalu terkenang-kenang dan rindukannya.

Jiji udah sihat :)

2011-03-16T00:49:00.000-07:00

Dalam demam tidak lupa set rambut, biar bangun dengan cantik!

Tidak mau ketinggalan memakai alat bantu 'hidung tersumbat/dengkur'

p.s: Gambar diambil pada malam pertama Jiji demam.

Alhamdulillah...

Semalam demam Jiji sudah kebah, hati mana yang tidak gusar melihat dia yang selama ini aktif (tidak pandai duduk diam) dan petah bercakap bertukar menjadi pasif dan asyik tidur dek penangan ubat. Sehingga papa&mama menjadi trauma dan paranoid dengan suhu badan, tidak dapat membezakan suhu badan normal atau demam. Hanya berpandukan Termometer... 36.5C itulah bacaan terakhir dan Jiji menjadi si comel yang ceria. Papa melayannya sepanjang malam: bercerita, menonton tv sambil melayar youtube "jangan nakal-Alif', "ilusi- Adira" dan semua lagu kegemarannya. Tidak cukup dengan itu sempat lagi menjenguk si Gwyn yang sedang tidur dan sedar-sedar dia mengoyangkan bahu. Jam menunjukkan 1.20 pagi.

"Papa.. sleep?" dengan muka concern
"hmm.. jom popom Ji" *popom=tidur
"Papa.. abang mana?"
"abang sleep tempat bonda" (bonda - merujuk kepada aunty kesayangannya)
"Papa.. Eji mau pee" *pee=kencing
selesai membuang air..
"papa.. abang sudah pee?"

Ahah! lupa pesan bonda dan bucunya si abang tu kena kejutkan dua kali untuk buang air. Papa berani bertaruh mesti dia basahkan baju tidurnya tu. Sebelum tidur dia sempat menukar gaun tidur pink kegemarannya, hati berkocak gembira melihat dia kembali lincah dan bijak!

What a coincidence!

2011-03-14T19:42:00.000-07:00

17th March - Papa
18th April - Jiji
19th February - Abang
20th November - Dedek
21st November - Mama

P/s : Whose birth date, just around the corner?

Merlin

2011-02-28T08:42:00.000-08:00

Alamak! maaf ya raden Iman.. semalam udah dijanjiin nonton Merlin, bisa-bisanya papa ketiduran. Iya itu kegemerannya mama dan abang. Kalau aja mama ngak kerja malam udah pasti nonton malam tadi.. Ya enak aja nyalahin mama.

Kesian si abang, beria-ia mau tengok drama tu. Dia awal-awal lagi sanggup menukar rancangan kegemarannya di Channel Ceria semata-mata untuk menunggu siar tayangannya pada pukul 10.30 malam di TV3. Tiba-tiba si adik yang sedang tidur di bilik menangis, mungkin mencari mama . Tidak lama kemudian si abang dan si kakak pun ikut masuk ke bilik memujuk dan menemani adik tidur. Melihat si abang yang mengantuk papa memujuknya supaya tidur dan berjanji akan mengejutkannya kemudian. Malam agak panas dan si kakak kelihatan gelisah kepanasan lalu papa menghidupkan aircond. Hmm dalam keselesaan itulah rasanya papa bersandar pada katil dan tertidur. Sori abang.

p.s: Papa ingat janji papa untuk bawa abang tengok wayang.. InshAllah.

3 years

2011-01-24T17:52:00.000-08:00

Salam,
Maaflah lama tidak update, Papa begitu sibuk dengan rutin harian apatah lagi tiga serangkai sekarang nie sudah mula bermain bersama. Seluruh rumah adalah lokasi permainan dan semua benda menjadi alat permainan.. dapat bayangkan?? surely a heaven place for them but a chaos scenery for us.

Entri kali ni buat papa teragak-agak untuk kongsi bersama tetapi sekadar buat ingatan bahawa kami pernah melalui proses ini dan keputusan ini dibuat untuk kebaikan bersama. Tidaklah bermakna papa&mama tidak ada kaedah perancang keluarga cuma mungkin kurang meyakinkan dan yang kesiannya kesan pada mama yang mengalami kesan sampingan. Akhirnya kami sepakat untuk memilih kaedah implan setelah mendapatkan maklumat dan nasihat dari doktor.

Papa seringkali berhadapan dengan insiden yang membuatkan hati terdetik "hmm.. family planning". Ada satu insiden yang mengeramkan tetapi kalau dikenang rasa kelakar pula ianya berlaku semasa membuat pembayaran di sebuah pasaraya Labuan.

Juruwang : Bang yang ni saiz M (sambil menunjuk pada lampin pakai buang)
Papa : Hmm.. yup (endah tak endah)
Juruwang : Oh mungkin abang salah yang ini (menunjuk pada lampin pakai buang saiz L)
Papa : Hmm.. napa?
Juruwang : Abang tidak salah saiz? Yang XL ni pun mau?
Papa : (deep breath) Iya dek.. ni semua untuk anak saya tiga tahun, dua tahun dan satu tahun.
Juruwang : Maaf encik..

Helper!!!

2010-11-03T00:53:00.000-07:00

Sapu-sapu- easy one!

kontrol comel!

Fuhh!!!!

Papa.. mission accomplished!

Well well.. Sunday could be my hectics day... maid off-day and usually mama works in morning shift and only come back around 3-5 pm. So I have thousand chores (I love exagerrate :) to do around the house and they want to help out somehow. I know that it might be nice for them to help but feeling a bit impatient. And I just know that it might turn into a two hour project and there might be a big mess to clean up. A mess that could be avoided if you did it yourself.

But I let them do of course with my observation? My idea was when they feel as though their papa@mama believes they're capable of handling simple chores around the house, it is an incredibly powerful message to them. "They believes I can do it!"

Thank you! abang, kakak

in house dancing class

2010-10-22T01:27:00.000-07:00

myanak2ku

2010-08-26T18:46:00.000-07:00

Secara kebetulan papa&mama hendak menukar tinted depan kereta, jadi mengambil kesempatan mengabdikan nama laman web. Sekadar ingatan khas buat anak-anak kesayangan papa&mama.

Ujian kencing: LULUS!

2010-04-20T00:51:00.000-07:00

Akhirnya abang dan kakak lulus ujian tidak kencing di seluar. Genap 1 bulan tanpa lampin pakai buang. Bukan satu latihan yang mudah buat mereka dan juga buat papa&mama, kedua pihak kena berkerjasama terutama sekali waktu malam kena bangunkan mereka untuk membuang air. Tahniah buat abang dan kakak. Papa&Mama bangga dengan kalian.. muahhhhhhh!!!

I'm a smart reader kids!

2010-04-14T14:50:00.000-07:00

Smart Readers kids,
Jln Tun Mustapha, Labuan.

Bermulanya fasa baru dalam hidup abang, memasuki alam persekolahan yang begitu menyeronokkan. Pada hari pertama ke sekolah dia sudah boleh berdikari dan tidak mahu ditemani di dalam bilik darjah. Sekarang abang sudah boleh memegang pencil dengan betul dan sangat minat mewarna. Masa lapangnya di rumah dihabiskan dengan membuat kerja rumah dan mewarna. Perkembangan sosialnya semakin baik dan yang geramnya dia enggan dicium di depan teachernya. Belajar rajin-rajin abang.. muahhhh!!!

Cucu-43

2010-02-22T21:40:00.000-08:00

22 Februari 2010 (Selasa)

Text mesej masuk berbunyi:

Adk dh slmt bersalin kul 6.13 td, bby boy tp skrg masih dlm labour room

Dan saya lantas menjawab:

Syukur Alhamdulillah, Tahniah sdh jadi mumy!

Saya yang kebetulan sedang bersarapan agak terbantut selera makan dek berita yang begitu mengujakan. Sedari itu, mama memujuk:

Papa makan lagi, adik ok tu.. jangan risau!

Dan aku seperti dihypnotis menambah sepinggan lagi bihun goreng+ayam kurma! Ni mesti guna taktik nurse suruh makan ubat hehe :)

Tahniah buat Hadafi dan adik yang secara rasminya bergelar
'mumy' dan 'dady'

Terima kasih buat si cucu ke-43

Mission!

2010-01-13T21:05:00.000-08:00

I'm on a ONE Dad mission to ensure that I help my son and daughter lay the foundation for a strong, supportive and of course loving sibling relationship. My first challenge is on how to get them not only tolerate but love each other!

Do Re Mi - Story telling

"Do I have to wait here abg?"

No boo please!

We need a big basin for dedek

Faking Hafiz's video clip

at the back yard

make us healthy!

new member!

2009-12-29T22:29:00.000-08:00

raya@beaufort

2009-10-20T21:38:00.000-07:00

Antara hari terakhir beraya di Beaufort... sedih sangat kalau dikenang, pada awalnya mama kena tahan di wad kecemasan kerana cirit birit dan muntah-muntah, selepas tu abang dan jiji demam dan cirit birit. Akhirnya papa pula diserang gastrik dan cirit-birit.

Petang tu papa dan mama sangat sedih sebab tidak dapat merasakan beraya sepuasnya-puasnya di Beaufort sedangkan banyak rancangan telah dibuat. Jadi petang tu walaupun belum sembuh sepenuhnya keluar juga bawa abang dan jiji ke halaman rumah mengambil buah rambutan dan bermain bola.

Pokok rambutan yang ditanam selepas papa dan mama bertunang, akhirnya berbuah dan terharu sangat kerana akhirnya abang dan jiji dapat mengambil sendiri dan merasa buahnya.

Alhamduluillah dalam keadaan kurang sihat sempat menziarahi pusara bapa... sangat menyayat hati apabila mama menyuruh si abang memberi salam dia menjerit "Assalamualaikum atuk!!". Kami sempat membacakan surah Yassin sebelum meninggalkan kawasan perkuburan dengan seribu perasaan. Papa terkilan sangat kerana tidak pernah berkesempatan berjumpa dengan arwah bapa itulah yang begitu menyebak perasaan..

Buat pertama kalinya abang dan jiji dibawa ke pusara bapa.

"Moga damailah engkau di sana.."

Jiji best day.. akhirnya..

2009-10-14T20:32:00.000-07:00

Alhamdulillah!
Niat untuk menyambut harijadi Jiji akhirnya terlaksana juga, bukan apa sudah banyak kali ditunda kerana masa dan hari yang kurang sesuai. Kami memikirkan pada masa depan nanti, bimbnag dia berkecil hati melihat ada gambar harijadi untuk si abang sedangkan dia tiada. Maka dengan sedaya-upayanya kami cuba capaikan juga hasrat ini.

Menunggu tetamu..

Sempat lagi menghisap 'hot-milo'nya

Sentiasa memberikan senyuman manis!

Tukar baju la pula.. Penyambut tetamu kenalah segak!

Jiji yang tidak mahu berenggang dengan nenek

Antara tetamu yang hadir

Mama menasihatkan abang 'don't kick friend ok.. dont naughty!" "ok ma!"

" mau potong sudah!" "abg not yet!!"

Malu!

Happy birthday to you..

"Abang tolong tiup ahh.."

"Abang tolong potong kek ahh.."

Apa tu bang??

Di samping mamanya!

Kek yang hampir habis.. butter cream cake (delight Cake) ramai yang berminat ni
!

Abang sibuk bermain belon!

"Emm.. bnyk hadiah.. angpau rm3**.. lumayan! makasih semua!!!"

"Aikk?? kosong?? abang!!!!!!!!"

Tidur awal, kepenatan!

Terima kasih buat 'nenek' 'papa janggut' 'kakak' yang banyak membantu dan tidak lupa bacaan doa selamat oleh Haji Jasni dan kepada tetamu yang sudi melapangkan diri untuk memeriahkan majlis. Inilah dia sepanjang ulangtahunnya yang ke 1 tahun 6 bulan..

Raya@Tanaki

2009-10-14T20:05:00.000-07:00

Salaam Aidilfitri... Tahun ini amat bermakna sekali buat pertama kalinya dapat balik beraya di Tambunan dan Keningau, maaf dipinta kerana inilah buat julung kalinya 'mama' dapat cuti raya dan kebetulan agak panjang sikit jadi kami bahagikan pre aidilfitri-beaufort, aidilfitri-tambunan-keningau-beaufort.

Abang dan Jiji bukan main gembira lagi dapat bertemu dengan sepupu-sepupunya tetapi abang agak kasar semasa bermain dan suka monopoli rancangan tv menyebabkan ramai yang takut dengannya. Lucu kalau diingat, ada anak saudara tu mengadu dengan kakak "jahat oh tu budak!" sambil menuding si abang yang baru melepaskan tumbukan dan tendangan.. dan abang hingga saat ini kalau hendak berpesan sesuatu dia akan cakap "buy ice dream, toys, mercun, bunga api, pistol, gula2, budak2!" emm tu lah dia.. mana la mau cari budak-budak bawa balik rumah!

Alhamdulillah... akhirnya Jiji dan abang sihat dan semakin berisi selepas demam dan cirit-birit.. Terkilan sangat semasa di Beaufort kami semua kurang sihat. Insyallah tahun depan bersama ahli yang baru..

Mumy, dady dan anak-anak saudara

Gambar terbaik yang dapat diambil

Si abang bermain 'lumba lari'

Buat peratama kalinya bermain permainan baru yang melibatkan ramai budak-budak!

Terima kasih mama atas susah payah menyiapkan keperluan kami dan semasa hari raya.. Kesian mama pada malam raya kedua sakit pinggang. Sayang mama!!!

Anak-anak papa!

2009-10-06T00:16:00.000-07:00

Masa berlalu .. (buat abang)
Hari itu masih terngiang-ngiang buat pertama kalinya suara abang menangis, masih terbayang proses kelahirannya, masih teringat kita bertentang mata buat pertama kalinya dan secara rasminya bergelar papa. Kukucup dahi mama.. terasa ucapan terima kasih amat murah berbanding dengan kesengsaraan yang ditanggunginya. Malah hadiah yang papa berikan tidak akan setanding dengan apa yang mama hadiahkan...

Masa berlalu.. (buat kakak)
Hari itu papa masih ingat debaran jantung menunggu, apabila mama melahirkan awal dua minggu daripada yang dijangka, duduk tidak senang berdiri jadi tidak kena. Alhamdulillah papa sempat masuk memberi sokongan buat mama. Hadiah yang cukup manis buat kami kerana hanya mengetahui jantina pada ketika itu. Mama tersenyum dan membisikkan "emm.. yang ni ikut rupa papa" dan papa mengangguk setuju...

Masa berlalu... (buat adik)
Hari itu papa baru saja terjaga dari tidur apabila mama menyerahkan kotak cincin pertunangan dan menyuruh membukanya, dalam keadaan bingung papa membukanya rupa-rupanya ada alat menguji kehamilan: dua garis! Kami bersyukur dan papa hampir-hampir melinangkan air mata. Ramai yang gembira dengan berita ini dan tidak kurang juga yang menyindir sinis tapi kami terima...

Masa ini...
Papa dan mama hampir 90% bersiap-sedia menanti adik. Papa dan mama berdoa:
" Ya Allah Maha Pengasih lagi Maha Penyayang, Hanya kepadamu tempat kami memohon pertolongan dan hanya kepadamu tempat kami berlindung, Ya Allah Engkau Maha Mengetahui dan Maha Kuasa, Kami mohon padamu Ya Allah permudahkanlah tatkala tiba masanya kelahiran anak kami, Permudahkanlah Ya Allah. Berikanlah kami kebaikan di dunia dan akhirat dan jauhilah kami dari azab neraka. Amin amin Ya-rabbil Al amin.."

sorry...

2009-09-10T22:27:00.000-07:00

What a long absence.. do accept my apologised!
ok presenting Prince Iman Hafiy and Princess Siti Fadiyah..

Papa and jiji!!!

Hmmm.. grrrrr!!!!

Always keep on eye of him! so 'pandai-pandai!' his fav. spot!

Extra keep on eye of her.. in a minute she can climb and lepak on his fav. spot!

"papa.. borrow!"

"boorow!!!"

"very windy eveny!"

abg the photographer!

2009-08-16T20:55:00.000-07:00

This was Eji 1st pose I guess.. she's now understood when I take picture of her..

update8

2009-08-16T20:43:00.000-07:00

picnic- pantai navy

2009-08-16T20:28:00.000-07:00

lovely dovey

2009-08-16T20:24:00.000-07:00

Haze+H1N1

2009-08-16T20:18:00.001-07:00

picnic- tmn damai

2009-08-16T19:39:00.000-07:00

It was my idea when mama prepared for the breakfast.. "ma.. kt bfast d beach lar..!" so its happened.. very fresh air! abg n jiji ate more than ussual!

anak papa

2009-08-04T16:32:00.000-07:00

I just headed in the house, when mama told need to buy some groceries... I dunno where I got the couraged to brought them both.. imagine we walked to the mini mart. Abg the fussy ppl in the world.. He always want this and that.. Jiji the bossy keep on pointing what and where she want to.. btul2 anak papa!

hectic weekend!

2009-07-26T17:37:00.000-07:00

Really! We were plan since friday things to do on sat-sun.. A lot of stuff!!!

Abg always enjoying his moments during hair-cut session..

Not done yet!

bought some groceries

Jiji getting bored of mom.. y so late??

Check sound.. not bad!

"Papa ur double chin is so scary!"

"Is not fair.. I wanna toys too!"

"Our turn to shopping!"

Finally we've our solutions!.. if previously we've to go two places.. Island tom yam and Mc'D.. now just take away meals at MC'D for jiji n abg..
and we can enjoying our dine at new seafood restaurant just next the Mc'D..

abg the fussy!

more pics.. balik kg

2009-07-19T19:42:00.000-07:00

balik kampung

2009-07-19T18:46:00.000-07:00

Went back to Beaufort for couples days... attend wedding ceremony, visits relatives and visit grave too... Abang and Jiji the most happiest person in the world!!!

cousins

She's so adorable!

kompang boy

Rambutan tree (3 years)

Jajal arr!

2009-07-03T01:02:00.000-07:00

Mama.. where r u??

Hi fren.. come ere!!!

I want to play... swinging!

Jiji.. careful.. fall!

this is funn!!

wat r u looking-looking?

Get bored!

shame larr!!

Papa.. I want pan cake!

I want five!

program galakan membaca

2009-06-23T22:37:00.000-07:00

I'm quite busy during the events.. dun have much pic to share..

rehearsal- program galakan membaca

2009-06-23T22:27:00.000-07:00

It was saturday morning.. we were rushed to make an arrangement for tomorrow event..
Thanks to abg for the big help, support and company..
Big thanx to those who help me to look after him!

Muzium Labuan

2009-06-23T22:10:00.000-07:00

I was looking for an idea for my exhibiton... finally we went to Labuan Muzium.. look how abg enjoyed the moments!

update 7

2009-06-23T21:59:00.000-07:00

We were invited for a wedding ceremony held at Lazenda... most of time we stayed in the house.. cannot 'tahan' abg so naughty!

update 6

2009-06-23T21:43:00.000-07:00

We were having dine.. when mama told 'stock'- foods material.. running out... so we move out.. look at them as if they know wat to buy..

Jiji got his hair cut! It was completely mama idea, and how could I argue with that fact that it was itching her eyes... but she looks adorable!

At dining room.. sharing 'chicken wing'

Where's abg??-

2009-06-10T00:59:00.000-07:00

Where's Jiji?

2009-06-10T00:53:00.000-07:00

Emm so geram!!!

Company

2009-06-10T00:46:00.000-07:00

As if it is a routine.. when I back at home.. they're ready to drag me out!
Now abg got a company to play!

Si 'Petet'

2009-06-10T00:32:00.000-07:00

'Petet' means short but cute!

For the very first time I let her play inside play ground's stuff

Abg shows how to play! I bet!

encem oOO!!!

2009-06-10T00:18:00.000-07:00

New hair cut! nice what???
Now he really look alike of cousin Iqbal

Picnic

2009-06-09T23:45:00.000-07:00

The idea was having lunch at the beach but then we packed swiming trunks!
We stopped by at Chicken King bought some foods and drink.

The weathers seems so gud! It was only about 3.15pm when we swam!
but yet still can't stand the sun heats. Sunburn!!!

We were ready to got up when suddenly he ran..
cried "swim.. swim.."
aiyaa.. ni budak arrr!

Solat!!!

2009-06-09T23:09:00.000-07:00

Very funny! when I performed solat abg followed me with those songkok and baju melayu.. and this was happen when mama turn... He cried to wear dat telekung.. luckily I've got the idea with that sarong!

abg the hero!

2009-06-09T22:34:00.000-07:00

Apy anniversarry 3rd year!

2009-06-09T22:14:00.001-07:00

Date: May, 30th 2009
Time: 7.15pm
Venue: Island Tom Yam

Wow it's been a while since our last dine at this place... last was when mama got pregnancy of abg. Dat nite we ate a lot! very enticing foods!!! Abg behaved as well.. Thank god!

Jiji's bad habit; bitting nails

We had our dessert at McD.. Sundae con and mc flurry oreo!! imagine dat??? hee e e..
Abg was over the moon! so happy of the night out!

update 5

2009-05-28T02:38:00.001-07:00

Now... Jiji always being attention... I always dunno how to reacts when suddenly people kissing on his cheek.. hugging... teasing.. I remember when we were in KL for vacation.. out of the blue one lady came and tried to take her into his arm... The lady was so pretty with nice attires.. but Mama kept still Jiji on his arm untill the lady get off.. Fuhh!!

update 4

2009-05-28T02:22:00.001-07:00

Mama's healthy getting better.. She's very active and has a good appetites too.. So we still on 'foods explorace!' when mama say 'I fell like to eat..' and we're 'ready, set, go!'

update 3

2009-05-28T02:11:00.001-07:00

It was sunday when we were 'stranded' in our own home.. (sorry to be exagerattes but that's how I felt) the weathers damn hot! but in the evening around 5pm we finally went off to Lazenda to make a visit of mama's cousin. Look at them play together and very behave!

update 2

2009-05-28T02:04:00.000-07:00

This is a thing that I can't wait for when abg still a baby.. to bring him along to the mosque.. finally we make it.. He's very eagers keep on saying 'solat' mama and our maid were worked hard to prepare him.. my maid said this is only to go pray not mention to go school.. I can imagine that..

update 1

2009-05-28T01:40:00.000-07:00

There's lot more pics to share but my hp was so unfriendly to use.. that's one reason I seldoms do updating this blog.. Was thinking of buying a camera digital.. more easier and convenience!

Lately

2009-05-20T19:27:00.000-07:00

I feel like I haven't blogged anything of worth in a long time. Truthfully, not much happens around here! I work, play with my boy and girl, look after my beloved wife still suffers of evening sickness.. In that order.

Now abg is really a 'talkative' he keep on questioning "what's this? what's that?" so funny when he saw us dress up to work he'll says 'abg working!" 'abg.. doctor!!" then ran to his closets find his outfit.. and wear it on.. telling you!

Jiji is always bossy.. keep on pointing things she wants.. and cried when she didn't get it.. but she's quite quiet and very gentle.. but abg's influences very strong.. now she's getting aggresive when playing..

My little sumandak!

2009-05-10T18:03:00.001-07:00

His favourite place!

public library

2009-05-04T00:02:00.000-07:00

For the very first time.. abg went to public library.. He can only sat properly for five minutes long.. then he just kept on browsing the library..

foods explorace

2009-05-03T23:34:00.000-07:00

Mama still on sickness.. all foods in and out.. we keep on looking any places that entices her to eat..

Pizza

MC'D

Pizza Hut

Finally we found one restaurant... Mama eat a lot.. we enjoyed it too!
Venue: Fisherman Wharf

Pizza!

2009-04-21T22:38:00.000-07:00

We went out to dine last nite... pityful mama.. recently she has no apetite to eat.. gastritis.. just to cheer her up.. luckily she ate a lot..

We Love u Mama!
A lots!!!!
Muaah..

1

2009-04-21T22:24:00.000-07:00

Happy Birthday my little girl!

Jiji was officially turn 1 year - April, 19th.
Due to unforeseen circumstances the party has been postpone as follows :-
Date : 26.04.2009 (Sunday)
Time : 2.00 pm
Venue : Tmn Mutiara, Blok M63-0002

All are invited!

Welcome!

2009-04-07T23:48:00.001-07:00

More than words can say.. Alhamdulillah...

2009-04-07T23:14:00.000-07:00

sorry for the long absent.. my old PDA was totally damaged.. No pics taken mean I've no idea to write on..

So the past few weeks have been wonderfully and purely hectic! Between working every day and having fun with abg n jiji, I am kept satisfyingly busy. I wish I could just spend more time and focus on each of them individually.

Abang!!!!

2009-03-24T18:08:00.000-07:00

As ussual abg welcome my arrival.. but I wasn't expect he wore Jiji's dress!
and he dont want to take off.. abang!!!!!!!

Ouch!!!

2009-03-24T00:34:00.000-07:00

My leg was bandages by mama.. see how abang envied!

ewah-ewah

2009-03-23T01:52:00.000-07:00

Ewah-ewah si Jijie!

"I surrender!"

Nak oii!!

2009-03-20T02:22:00.000-07:00

For the very first time I've the guts to bring along abg to mosque (solat jumaat) Quite worried if he bothers me as he did when I perform solat at home... but know what.. he's so smart. he just sat quietly and follow what people did.. I mean he did solat as well! but he's really upset when he losing his songkok.. Once again he amazed me!!!

Finally Jiji can stands on his feet but only for 10 second and she fall..
No forward movement yet..

Big fan of AF!!!

This little sumandak is very bossy sometimes!
You have no idea!!

look alike?

2009-03-18T21:40:00.000-07:00

Life goes smooth as well..

Abg try to make a 'peace finger'
Doesn't they look alike?

While waitin mama cook 'cucur ubi'
Doesn't we look alike?

"from now on.. this is my chair!"

small update..

2009-03-17T00:49:00.000-07:00

Time flies so fast.. we didn't noticed till ppl told us they're about same size..

making a scrapbook

2009-03-11T22:34:00.000-07:00

I have been thinking of making a scrapbook for abg and jiji for a long time. I always find excuses of not doing the same and blame them for my laziness. Now I have decided "Better late, than Never". I want the memories of their childhood (precisely babyhood) never to fade and hence will try to write this blog as close to them as I can..

Nak oii!

2009-03-10T00:47:00.000-07:00

Show off our new greeny-wall

The best pose could be

Jiji first day out to playground

I hate when he climb up against

My boy! against the odd..

Yu bi du bi du..

Mama always complained he can't go down properly..

Finally.. abg can hang-up

abg kick! kick it out!!

He's naturally friendly..

Thanks mate.. we play some other times

So excited!!!

She's so adorable!

Listening 'Ruang rindu' by Letto

He's so into music..

And obsessed with handphone too..

"Very useful.. tell ma we need one"

Wah! what a mess!!!

Watchaa...

Ouch.. sliperry!

"Ma.. look at the gold fish!"

"Emm.. no is not a gold fish!"

I can't remember how frequent we do shopping

and always this cool department!!!

Another series pics taken by abg!

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!

2009-03-02T22:01:00.000-08:00

C O N G R A T U L A T I O N S !!!!
AUNT D

MAY ALLAH GIVE U A GOOD HEALTH
AND HEALTHY BABY... INSYALLAH....

WOW! I'M THE-41 GRAND SON/DAUGHTER

absent

2009-03-02T19:31:00.000-08:00

I have been absent from the blog for a bit. My february has been very full so far. Abg and Jiji are very-very naughty lately.. they became closed but wait till they fight!

Abg's first time took pic by my hp!
Not bad.. where's papa n jiji?

Utama Jaya: "mama.. take it off"

Shopping.. again and again!

"Yahoo!!!"

Ready.. set.. go!

Pooridge.. not bad!

I wanna play!

Always cheer up!

Parkson: nice hand bag..

"Can we go to toys department"

"What a bored!"

"Emm.. what to buy arr??"

Enjoying.. everywhere.. anytime..

At home.. play with mama

"Mama.. get up here.. wanna check ur weight"

See.. Jiji can stand oready!

But when we come she pretend to fall!

Abg big fan of any video clip

Esp. the indonesian one!

"makhluk tuhan paling seksi" fav. one..

Fuyohh!!

2009-02-23T23:13:00.000-08:00

For the very first time on this month mama off day due on weekend.. Since the nite before we planned all things to do...

1. Morning: Do car washing... 6.45am.. Abg as our helper..

2. Breakfast at Restoran Mayang Sari.. Thank God Abg ate a lot..

3. Shopping at Utama Jaya.. SO many tempted things but budget run out..

4. Afternoon: Just browsed around.. Pasar Tani

4. Evening: Gardening.. finally limau & lada in the pot..

5. Mama treated us momom at McD.. nyum nyum!

Hafiy Birthday 2

2009-02-18T18:25:00.000-08:00

Abg is offically 2 years today!
As if he knows his birthday today.. he woke up early around 5.30am..
We sang 'Happy Birthday' He sang too.. Assumed he understood..

Refused to dress!

"Today is my b'day.. I can do anything rite?"

"Wah.. No kids around?? am I too early or too late?"

Its only 7.10am. He begged me (actually dragged) to the playground.
Since mama work morning shift so I just followed him.

____________________________________________________

We don't have the cake yet.. so back from work we went down to town..

"Hi fren.. my birthday is today but u're not invited!"

"Why's she get angry??" Did I say wrong word?

________________________________________________________

After looking at two shop finally we found this!
Black forest fresh cream.. yummy!!

Spiderman on the cake!

"Happy birthday to you!"

Look at Jijie try to figure out??

"fuhhh!!!"

"My wish..."

"Ma.. when is my bestday?"

Open present ceremony..

Jeng! jeng!! jeng!!

"Lets dance Mr. Robot"

"Bad Robot.. beat him up!"

"Come fighting!"

"Am I fair enough?"

"Sorry.. everyone.. the real party will be held on April, 18th"
All are invited!!!

Big Birthday Parties for Little Kids?

2009-02-18T05:42:00.000-08:00

Parental Dilemma

by Michele Cheplic | More from this Blogger

With the economy in the dumpster, families around the world are keeping a very close eye on spending. But, what do you do when it's your child's birthday? It's not as though you can overlook such a momentous occasion.

My 4-year-old just got an invitation to her friend's birthday party... along with the rest of her class. The party is being held at a local roller rink and lunch will be provided. I'm sure my daughter will have a blast... along with the other 25 kids from her class.

Her having a good time is not what I am worried about. My concern is that my daughter's birthday is coming up and I wonder whether I will now have to invite her entire class to celebrate. It's not easy to fit that many children into an average sized house. Fifteen, maybe... but 25 to 30 would be out of the question.

This dilemma could be easily solved if it were not for the fact that I fear someone in her class would get his/her feelings hurt by not receiving an invite. What's more, there's a sense of obligation (on my part) to invite every kid that has extended an invitation to my daughter on his or her big day.

In presenting this dilemma to my friends I have received many suggestions, including:

The number of guests should coincide with the child's age. For example, if your birthday boy is turning 5 he can invite 5 kids to his party.

Make it a girls-only party. By having a tea party or princess theme you're off the hook when it comes to inviting boys. (The only problem: My daughter has just as many boy BFFs as girl ones.)

Suck it up. Rent out a bigger venue, fill it with inexpensive decorations and affordable food, and chock it up to parenting in the 21st century.

So, do you invite the whole class when it's time to party or have you been brave enough to set a guest limit?

etc...

2009-02-18T04:52:00.000-08:00

Sorry for those who waiting a new post.. thanx for kept waiting.. n kept supporting..

watched movie..

"My idol.. myhero.. Ultraman Dyna!"

"Cmon food.. faster!"

Just woke up.. "where on earth are we?"

"Whatever.. wherever.. as long as I dun have to walk"

My first sandal.. spider man

"Let me try.. how this spiderman's work!"

This is fun! Really?

"What is so gud about u?"

"see.. what have u done!"

How often Do you yell at your kids?

2009-02-17T08:35:00.000-08:00

Can Yelling at Your Kids Be Good?

By Lisa Belkin

Anger and Stress
(Illustration by Barry Falls)

I never lose my temper. I am Zen in the wake of any storm. Sometimes I speak a bit more, um, loudly, than other times, but that’s only because there is background noise and I want to make sure my boys hear my rational and calm explanation that begins with an even-keeled “how many times do I have to tell you…”

If you ever meet them and they start to spin tales about how, once or twice (or whatever) I actually lost my voice from shrieking about the dang clothes left all over the darn floor, well, boys do have active imaginations, now don’t they? And the one about the time Mom threw a full glass of water (the contents, not the actual glass) at one of their heads (she missed, they will tell you) — you don’t have to believe them. (I would never miss.)

We rarely talk about the anger of being a parent. We know the lurking danger — of anger turning physical, or crossing a line. That means we also don’t talk about the fact that we all lose it. Or the corollary fact that sometimes anger works.

When all else fails, a few claps of oral thunder certainly show that Mom or Dad has had it, that humans can be pushed just so far, and this is what it looks like when you’ve pushed them too much.

I have friends whose parents really never yelled. Those same friends were terrified at their first fight with their own spouse, or their first anger at their own children; they were certain the marriage was over and the kids would be taken away. There is a lesson learned by some yelling (not abusing or berating, or belittling, but emoting; not constantly, but sometimes): we get mad, we make up, we still love each other.

My guest blogger, Susie Orman Schnall, knows this, well. She and her husband are raising three young boys in the suburbs of New York. Most days go well. Here’s the story of one day last fall that didn’t. For some of you what she describes will sound like a minor skirmish, others will find it outrageous. For her it was frightening, and memorable — and it seems like it all turned out okay.

Taken from:- http://parenting.families.com/blog

weekend

2009-02-14T08:46:00.000-08:00

Only us..

I'm big.. see I can drink coke!

Aqua Shop.. Pasar Tani

Again.. mee basah+ice milo

before and after..

2009-02-14T08:08:00.000-08:00

we woke up early.. Abg was so excited..
ready with his back pack.. to explore Labuan..

Emm..

2009-02-12T00:28:00.000-08:00

I bought an ice cream to him.. it was quite long he din't eat it.. See how he enjoyed it!

My little sumandak.. only stop playing when sleeping.. she always want us sit next her for accompany.

Fuhh!!

2009-02-11T00:33:00.000-08:00

When I headed in house.. abg hypnotised me.. he held my hand out.. he didn't talk much just the words "papa.. jom" I was just followed him and only realised it when we oready at the play ground. Can you imagine that?? Wah.. he amazed me!

This little princess is a little boss too.. She's so energetics! she's kinda toddler now..

Aiyaa..

2009-02-09T00:11:00.000-08:00

The house just finished do some renovated, painting and tiles fixing.. So we did a very hard cleaning.. and switching furniture.. Abang and Jiji are very good helper! you have no idea!!

Sleep early rise early..

For temporary we sleep at Reading's room..

Abg wore Jiji's dress! shame on you

"Not bad!"

"Smile to camera.."

Last sat, we went to Labuan 25th anniversary.. the weather was pretty hot.. the events was ok..

Abg insisted to go up on stage! aiyaa..

Look at his eyes.. he really wants to go there!

Dun worry abg.. one day..You will be on stage